Findings

February 7, 2009

I’ve found a new lingerie site:

BeCheeky

I already have more lingerie than I could possibly ever need – apparently Gok Wan says women need five bras: black, white, strapless, sexy and plunging.  I have three times that.  And don’t get me started on the amount of corsets, basques, knickers, suspenders, stockings…..

But I can’t resist new lingerie.  It’s like the newness makes your whole body look new too, and shiny and enticing.  It’s a present for me and the other half, not that it stays on for long: something for him to feast his eyes on; and for me, as he can’t wait to take it off and throw me down on the bed!

Tied and Bound

January 7, 2009

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I was stripped naked, with only a blindfold on, and was led by the hand to lie on the bed.  He positioned my arms above me, and then I felt the cool metal of the handcuff encasing my wrists as has fastened them.  I wriggled about, testing to see how much movement I still had, but I had been handcuffed to the headboard of my bed, and my ankles were being bound with silk ties to the bottom of the bed.

Just for a moment, all excitement left me, and the feeling of fear swept over me: this was the first outing into bondage for me and William, and I didn’t know what to expect.  But I quickly pushed this thought aside, as I felt the cold touch of William’s fingers, which were covered in lube: the excitement built up again as they circled my bumhole and he carefully inserted one, then two, then three fingers in.  His other hand (slightly warmer!) was playing with my clit, and occasionally he dipped a finger into my drenched pussy, and I felt so full, but also so hot being double penetrated.

He inserted his rock hard cock into my expectant pussy in one fluid movement, and I had a small intake of breath as I felt the length of him spread me further.  He pounded me with hard, rapid strokes, hitting that place that tips me over the edge.  I tried to move my arms, obviously in vain as the handcuffs weren’t going to budge, so I could grab that firm ass of his.  Just as the first ripples of orgasm started to flow through me, he withdrew, and said ‘I’m gonna come on your face’, and took off my blindfold off:  I watched him grasp his cock in his hand and start pumping, the tip only an inch from my face.  All it took were three strokes, and he came on my cheek.  I opened my  mouth, trying desperately to take the tip of his cock in my mouth, to taste him, but I couldn’t lift my head up to reach: instead, he rested the tip on my lips, and the last few spurts went into my mouth, and smothered my lips.

Finished, he bent down to kiss me before I’d licked all of his come off of my lips.  He tasted himself on me, adding that I looked ‘so sexy’ like this, with his come over my face, and being bound and under him.

Next time it’s his turn.

His slave

August 20, 2008

Hmm, didn’t really think of the flip side here! It’s his birthday….so I have to get him something. And I don’t think a bottle of Jack Daniels would suffice! Although, whilst on the subject of alcohol, you can’t beat a bit of your favourite tipple to just loosen up and make you a little more giggly and slightly less inhibited. I mean, in general. If you’re not inhibited then I don’t know what alcohol does to your inhibitions! Answers on a postcard please.

Anywho, back to the main topic of conversation, during a slight bit of text flirting earlier, Guy did say how he would like to take a shower with me, cleaning me with some luxurious body wash, and then simultaneously moisturising me and giving me an all over body massage (he’s good isn’t he?!). I think my birthday present is complete 🙂

Now….for his present. Think I’m pretty much sorted underwear-wise due to the fabulous Dita bra and silver topped stockings. Should leave him completely speechless 😀 Now I don’t want to plan it *too* much, because then there’s no spontaneity, but I’ve got a fabulous trench coat, that’s just screaming out to cover up my lingerie and only my lingerie, complete with those shoes when I turn up at his….

Fumbling

August 4, 2008

Greetings bloggers!  I have been gone a while, due to birthdays and large amounts of work, but I return to you with something delicious!

I refer to this for the title:

The Dita bra.

Yes, you’ve seen the Dita briefs, now it’s time for the matching Dita bra (naturally, I have ordered one from Miss Summers).  The reason I am dedicating an entire post to this is because of the fastening:  it fastens at the FRONT.  Now, call me cruel, but imagine my delight when I realised this was the case, and the thought crossed my mind: ‘how long will it take men to notice that the fastening is at the front, not the back?’  Foreplay would continue for so much longer! One can hope…

Obviously, it’s gonna take me a while to figure this one out, with no man close at hand at the moment.  But to anyone else who has this, I would very much like to know how long it took 😉

And, after LadyP’s post agggeeesss ago, I did also treat myself to numerous sets of stockings.  Well…I now have the complete Dita outfit!  I need stockings to go with!

The marathon quickie

April 28, 2008

Or quickie marathon. Either or. That’s because it wasn’t a quickie (I don’t think Barry does quickies!) but it wasn’t the usual 4 hours marathon of sex we have when we haven’t seen each other. Somewhere in between. I’m not complaining. After all, it’s quality, not quantity 😉

Last night was good, obviously having 6 weeks apart did something! I think he had missed me 🙂 Barry was still pretty run down from the stress of the previous exam week, but I don’t think even that could prevent how much he wanted me. He walked through the door looking very hot (he’d been shopping, his bi-annual shopping trip) and I closed the door and immediately started kissing him and stripping him naked. He had worn my favourite boxers as well, but they weren’t on for long. He had a harder time undressing me, as I had worn a dress over a lace bustier with ties and fastenings and all sorts, crotchless thong, stockings and garter belt. In the end he just threw me on the bed and whilst nuzzling my neck he thrust his hard cock into me.

Gosh, I had forgotten how big he was! It took me a while to adjust, but I came so quickly, probably just because I finally had him inside of me! He started rocking me to another orgasm, with my leg hooked over his shoulder and kissing me with such force. After my second orgasm in about five minutes, he said he wanted me naked, so helped me strip myself down (he can’t work out how suspenders are attached) then proceeded to fuck me again, this time fondling my breats and licking my nipples, and all I could do was hold onto the headboard and come, yet again.

I think at this point he was close to coming, as he pulled out and made his way down and started licking my clit in long, slow, languid stroke, and probed my pussy with two fingers, which curled round and pushed against my G-spot. He was gently sucking on clit, alternating making little circles with his tongue, all the while his finger were delving as far as they could go. When I couldn’t take anymore, he returned, and I kissed him as I wanted to taste myself on his lips. Then I rolled him over and showed him what he’d been missing: I licked and sucked on his balls one at a time, then slowly licked the entire length of his cock, and teased him by swirling once around the tip, and then returned to the base. I licked that base of his cock, whlie massaging his balls, and then sucked gently on the top of his cock, and then lowered myself down sooo sloooowly. I could hear him swearing under his breath, his hands were tangled in my hair as I took the entire length of him into my mouth, making me gag a bit. I could feel him twitching, so withdrew and gave him a long kiss.

I asked him if he wanted me to make him come, and he didn’t say anything, he just positioned his cock at my pussy and thrust upwards, making me scream and grip onto him for support. I moved up and down, and he thrust upwards to meet me, grabbing my hips. I leaned forward to kiss his neck rocked backwards and forwards, still hearing him cursing under his breath, so I knew it was making him feel good, and he was close to coming. What was stopping him I wonder? I whispered ‘Come for me’ in his ear, but he replied ‘I’m not finished with you yet’ and gripped my hips with such force and thrust upwards, again and again, causing me to fall on him, and them I came again.

I needed to rest after that performance, so we did for a bit. Then I needed to get up and close the blinds, as it was getting dark. Just as I had closed the last blind, he sprang up behind me and started kissing my neck and doing that wonderful Barry technique: licking my neck up and down and swirling his tongue over my pulse and gently sucking. He did this on both sides, all the time running his hands over my body, like he wanted to feel every inch of me, like he couldn’t believe I was actually there in front of him. Then he bent me over my desk and said ‘I’ve wanted to do this all night’ and thrust into me so hard, it rocked the desk, as I was gripping onto it hard. He started my moving in and out slowly, kissing my back and teasing my nipples with his right hand and grabbing my hip with his left. Then I told him I wanted it harder, faster, and that I wanted him to come in me. His right hand moved down to stroke my clit, and he pounded me with such force, the desk was shaking. We came together and he collapsed onto my back and planted little kisses there.

After that we were pooped and fell into bed under the duvet, curled up in each others arms. We stayed like that for the rest of the night, him spooning me, with his arms around me. We watched a movie (Underworld – you gotta love that leather/pvc outfit Kate Beckinsale wears!) and he gave me little massages, helped me with my uni work and then fell asleep, still hugging me. In fact, even when he rolled over in the night, he always had some part of his body in contact with mine, even if it was just his leg over mine.

I know this sounds silly, but although he hasn’t said ‘I love you’, I feel it. I know that he’s scared that if he says it, it’s all going to go horribly wrong and we’ll break up, especially with the long distance thing looming. But the bond between us is different somehow, in a good way, to how it was last term. Maybe it’s just because he’s more content now he has his PhD stuff sorted and exams out of the way. But he was always affectionate towards me anyway, but yesterday more so.

Yes, I am silly.

Date night continued

April 25, 2008

Or should I wear black bra, this , garter belt and suspenders?

Gah

So many choices

Help

Date night

April 24, 2008

Sunday is date night!

I have been told I do not have to ‘dress up’, but if I do, it’ll be very much appreciated 🙂 so I intend to wear my gorgeous badydoll and some leg avenue stockings. Maybe. I may change my mind.

I don’t care. I’m seeing my Barry! I’ve been so lonely today, it’s like a light at the end of the tunnel

Perfect end to a terrible week

Sex over the ether

April 2, 2008

One of my earlier posts flitted over the topic of phone sex but those phone bills can be quite expensive, whereas MSN is a much cheaper alternative 😀

I don’t think it was intentional.  It wasn’t as if we’d been ‘flirting’ (if people in couples flirt…?) before hand, we just got talking about random stuff then all that pent up sexual frustration from both sides came out (!) in the form of an MSN convo. 

It started off by me saying that I missed his duvet (I can’t admit I miss him can I? :p) cause it’s soooo comfy, which lead to him saying that he’d rather keep me awake when I’m next on his duvet than me falling asleep.  It’s pretty much a good plan for what we intend to do in 19 days.  Can’t wait!  He described it for me in detail:

 “Just when you’re about to fall asleep, I’ll lean over and gently kiss your shoulder, then leave a trail of kisses all the way along your collarbone and then up your neck.  Then I can do that thing you love so much, where I gently lick and suck your pulse.  That’ll wake you up!  If you wear that nice dress you wore on Valentine’s day I can slowly slip a hand up your leg to find (hopefully) your lace stockings, all the while still kissing your neck.  Then I’ll kiss you fully on the mouth my hand finds your knickers and pull them down and slowly enter you and finger fuck you, stretching you so you’re ready for me.  I won’t be able to wait much longer, so I’ll quickly unzip my jeans (you can help) and enter you.  You’ll gasp cause you haven’t had me for weeks, but I won’t hurt you.  A few thrusts and my entire length will be in and I’ll rock back and forth, alternating with little teasing circular motions, until I grab your leg and hook it over my shoulder so I can get deeper.  I want us to come together, and neither of us will last long in this position.  After thrusting into you with deep, hard strokes, you’ll come, and you’ll send me with you.  Can’t wait to see you!”

😀

Even newer purchases!

March 31, 2008

So my Ann Summers stuff turned up today and am sooooo pleased with it! 

This

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Is absolutely stunning on (sorry to brag, but it does), sort of uplifting my tits and giving them a really nice shape (do I sound like a sales rep?)  This is what I’m wearing when I see Barry next (counting down: only 25 days left!)

Ok, but on a different note.  I have mentioned flirting outside the relationship before, and while I’m not doing it, I’m amazed at how many other people do it.

For instance, I went to the pub with some mates last week and I went up to the bar on my own and one guy, who was ok looking started talking to me, general chit chat, but progressed to more, like ‘shall I give you my number?’  I said I had a boyfriend, and he replied with ‘I have a girlfriend, but what they don’t know won’t hurt them’.  I politely declined his offer and went back to my mates, and told them what happened (I think I should point out that I was the only girl out that night) and they didn’t seem surprised.  Apparently it’s a common occurrence.  With them at least!

 So is there a difference between men and women?  I mean, that guy at the bar was interested in more than just flirting, but do men flirt, expecting it to lead nowhere, and it’s just part of innocent ‘fun’, and women see it as something more?

Unexpected purchases

March 17, 2008

Ok, so it was my Ann Summers party on  Saturday, and looking at my order form I think I may have been a little bit tipsy when I ordered things.  Looking at my previous post (Do you wish to purchase the whip or the PVC body tape?) I only ordered two things off of that list!  The rest was due to being under the influence I reckon.

So in a couple of weeks time I’ll have:

  • the chocolate and strawberry body pens (hurrah)
  • the double ended dildo (also, hurrah)

This is where it differs

  • a retro cami suspender.  I suspect I may have chosen this because of the chunky suspender clips.  And because it gives me an excuse to go out and buy some bright red stockings to go with it
  • handcuffs
  • an eye mask

So I forgot about the leopard cami and the door jam cuffs 😦 maybe next time!

Also, I forgot to bring the Sex 365 book home with me from uni, so no ‘position of the week’ this week.  Instead, I will do two next week.  But I did win a book of ‘naughty dares’ in the raffle, so maybe  I can post one of those up instead?