Sweet music

December 1, 2008

So we started a little discussion on my previous post, about musicians, and the general conclusion that they make better lovers.

Let’s look at the evidence:  William is by far the best lover I’ve had (more on that another day) and he plays several instruments.  Barry, although morally bankrupt, I have to admit was pretty hot in bed.  The rest on my ‘list’ did not play instruments, and, well….they were lacking, certainly compared to the top two.

Why is this?  What is it about playing music makes you a better lover?  

Now, I’m sure that just because you pick up a guitar and play a few notes does not instantly make you a God in bed.  So I hypothesise that as you practise your music playing and improve, you improve in bed.  So perhaps it’s the sheer fact that you’ve put your mind to getting you music to perfection.  Practise makes perfect, after all.

So maybe said musician applies the same dedication and willingness to perfect their lovemaking in bed (or wherever you decide to ‘get it on’): from what I’ve noticed, in general they are more attentive, and put your pleasure before their own (although every man should do this, surely?).

Or maybe it’s the fact they are more in tune with their emotions:  music stirs the soul, songs can remind you of certain parts of your life, good and bad, which can bring up memories and the emotions that are associated with them.  Maybe, although i do not think this is a reasonable conclusion: musicians can be unfeeling as well.

So to be quite honest, I don’t have a definitive answer.  All I know is *my* musician is definitely the best lover.

6 Responses to “Sweet music”


  1. We indulge in a delicate art form; we are careful, tender and skilled with our hands; we tune in to our emotions. We’re like poets, but with two ears.

  2. oatmeal girl Says:

    Hmmm.. I think you need a wider sample. A very large percent of my lovers over the course of 40 years have been musicians. Not that there have been that many lovers [sigh…] but the majority have been musicians. ONE is really really good. God’s gift to women, except that in his advanced years he has some performance issues. Still he is frightfully attentive. The rest? Not so impressive. These include a fiddler, a brass player, and a devotee of various plucked strings.

  3. lacestockings Says:

    Hmmmm, maybe it depends on the instrument in question?

  4. oatmeal girl Says:

    God’s Gift to Women plays sax and clarinet.

  5. The Drinker Says:

    I think ILB is right – if you take care over honing your skill on whatever instrument, you’re more likely to be caring about what you touch elsewhere? That said, it can’t be true of everybody. Computer boys also spend a lot of time with their fingers, and carefully tinkering, and they can be pretty hot too…

    xx

  6. lacestockings Says:

    Hmmmm computer boys….but that’s because they have that geeky look that’s just so…..sexy!


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