Best sex bloggers of 2009

November 10, 2009 at 12:36 am (Sex blogs)

Yes, I know 2009 still has a few weeks left, but Between my Sheets has compiled a list of the best sex bloggers:

http://www.betweenmysheets.com/index.php/top-100-sex-bloggers-of-2009

Alas, I am not listed.  But I advice you to go check it out, as the list is the creme de la creme of the sex blogging world!

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New chapter?

November 8, 2009 at 12:40 am (Biting, Blow Jobs, Flirting, Fondling, Kinkiness, Sex)

He kicked off his shoes, one of them propelled to the area of the room I was standing in. It hit the back of my leg, and I spun round, ready to berate him. But I thought of a better idea: under the guise of being annoyed, I started a tickling war. He was powerless to resist, and collapsed in a fit of giggles onto his bed. I straddled him in order to keep up the pretense that I was hurt by such a display of carelessness with his shoes.

But then he grabbed me, forcefully, but not enough to cause me pain. My arms were pinned to my sides, and all tickling was stopped. I was still straddling him, and as I felt how powerfully he held me in his grip, I started to let my mind wander over what might be.

I slowly lowered my head to meet his, and gently placed a kiss on his lips.  To say there were sparks is an understatement.  A sharp intake of breath from him, and his arms were wrapped around me, holding me in an unbreakable embrace.  My arms snaked around his neck, my hands running through his too-long hair.  Our hands wandered, as our lips danced over necks: as his lips kissed, and teeth grazed over my neck, it was all I could do to slump into ball.  A ball completely filled with electricity, feeling ecstatic.

I should have been feeling utterly relaxed, lapping up the attention he was giving me.  But I was greedy.  I wanted more.  I pulled at his shirt, lifting it up over his head.  I wanted to get a better look at him, so I pushed him back onto the bed, still kissing him, with him pulling me down on top of his body.

I wound my way down his neck, onto his chest, with my mouth, placing kisses along my way, but pausing at his nipples.  I circled my tongue around his nipple, and heard the sharp intake of breath, and felt his arms lock tighter around my body.  I continued this, bringing him to the same peak he had brought me to earlier, before carrying on my journey further down his body.

If his belt wasn’t so complicated, I would’ve contemplated taking his trousers off with my teeth, just for the effect.  But, alas, his belt was complicated.  He had to help.  But once I got his trousers off (he took his socks off at the same time – how do men do that so easily, seemingly without us noticing?), I continued with the teasing.  This was done by kissing the tops of his legs, and that little crease that forms between the top of his legs and his abdomen.  Then I started at the base of his penis, and licked the length of it, finishing off with a swirl of my tongue around his head.  I played around this throbbing head, running my tongue up and down the frenulum, as my left hand pumped his cock, and my right hand was entwined with his hand.  Then, when I thought I’d teased him enough, I slid the entire length of his cock into my mouth.  His hand swept my hair aside, which had fallen and covered his cock, so he could watch me work my mouth on his cock.

I moved back to kiss him properly, and his hands move quickly to remove me from my clothes.  Again, I raise the issue of skinny jeans: they may look good, but they sure as hell are difficult to get off in the throws of passion.  Now it is his turn to worship my body.  And he does such a good job, paying particular attention to my breasts, kneading them gently with his hands, whilst flicking my nipples with his tongue.

As I was in a state of complete and utter bliss, yet again, I failed to notice his hand disappear ‘down south’, until he started circling my clit with his fingers.  He was teasing me.  I kept trying to wriggle around, so he would sink his fingers deep inside me, but he didn’t take the bait.  But he did, when I least expected it.  I practically came on the spot.  It had been too long since I’d had anyone finger me, and it felt so good to have it done to me again.  He rocks me hard, still pleasuring me with his tongue all over my body.

Positioning himself above me, I spread my legs to allow him easier access.  I squirm a little, anticipating the inevitable thrust of his cock.  He rubs my opening with it, before sinking in, in one long stroke, before pulling out again.  He continues to do this, several times, before I grabbing him, trying to pull him towards me, my legs wrapped around me, trying to ease my frustration.  He grants me my wish, slowly, and as he thrusts in and out of me, he positions his hand in between our bodies, and starts rubbing my clit again.  He brings me so close, but stops.

I roll him over, pinning him down, and straddle him again.  I lower myself onto his cock, and this time, bring him to the brink of orgasm.  But I stop just before he does.  Now who’s the teasing one?  I tell him I don’t want him to come just yet, and suggest that he takes me from behind.

Kneeling on all fours, he grabs my hips, and takes me, starting slowly, and building it up.  With one hand on my hip, the other on my right breast, he brings me to the point again…..but then stops, building up the suspense.

We collapse side by side on the bed – neither of us have come yet. I ask him what he wants.  He says whatever I want, I can have it. I tell him I want him right now, really hard. He obliges.

He slid his cock into me, forcefully, and carried out my request by thrusting into me hard and fast.  After a few strokes, he said ‘Told you I wouldn’t last long’, followed by ‘ohhhhhhhh fuck!’ as his thrusts became harder, before coming deep inside me.

I may not have come, but he made up for it later.  But that’s another post…

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Closure

October 21, 2009 at 10:42 pm (Men, Relationships, Sex)

In a recent meeting, me and William had a massive blow-out: about the break up, about the miscarriage, the works.  But afterwards, it seemed everything was all rosey again.  It seemed we could talk, as friends, and the newly acquired distance between us buffered this to ensure things stayed friendly and didn’t turn nasty or, as I was trying to avoid, didn’t move into the territory of talking about ‘us’ and the possibility of us again.

But the latter occurred, and the following conversations were about how he wanted either me to visit him for a weekend, or him to come up for a weekend.  My repeatedly saying ‘no’ to such an offer fell on deaf ears, until this weekend, when he said he would come up for the day, so we could get some closure.

Now, closure can be a strange thing: it means different things to different people.  To William, it means us having sex, and seeing what happens.  He believes that if this happens, one of two conclusions will be drawn:

  1. That we’ll think ‘that was nice, but we’re over each other’. Or
  2. That we’ll think ‘that was nice, let’s get back together’.

And apparently, there’s no other ’suitable solution’ to us gaining closure.

I’m ashamed to say, it took me a while to realise what he was suggesting.  Not the sex part, that was obvious.  But the underlying theme to this scenario he’s described for me: that he just wants a shag.  Before realising this, I suggested that talking is suitable closure.  He replied, saying ‘yeah, talking can work.  Do you want to come visit me?’

So, when the prospect of sex was in his head, he was willing to visit me for his ‘closure’.  But now that’s off the cards, I have to travel nearly 100 miles to get closure suitable for me only.

Sod that. And now I’ve realised what he’s up to, I’ve said so.  I’m not looking forward to hearing his response, but by the same token, why should I care?

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Scary

October 20, 2009 at 11:39 pm (Lingerie, Men, Ponderings, Reviews, Women)

The new Agent Provocateur collection is called ‘Tarantula’:

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Considering 50% of women, and only 10% of men suffer from arachnophobia, surely this was the wrong image to use to promote their latest range of lingerie?  I know it certainly makes me want to turn away!

Anyone agree?

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Cock, please

October 15, 2009 at 11:21 pm (Biting, Love, Men, Relationships, Sex)

Before I tell you about past adventures, I feel I need to get this off my chest:

I’m missing sex.  Oh so much.

There are points during the day when I can’t concentrate on what I’m reading because my mind wanders off, and recalls what it’s like to be kissed, caressed, licked, stripped, nibbled, teased, fucked…..see?  It’s happening again!

I really shouldn’t complain: if I hadn’t have broken up with William, I could still be having semi-regular sex.  If things with Bass Player had been more than a fling, I could also still be having sex.  But that isn’t really a good enough reason for wanting a man in my life now, is it?

When I start missing cuddles in bed, being told I look cute when I angry, being made cups of tea and breakfast, and having a man to hold my shopping bags on a Saturday, then maybe I’ll start looking properly.  When I feel like I can actually love someone again, then there will be no maybe about it.

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Blood, sweat and tears

October 12, 2009 at 9:39 pm (Injury, Love, Lustful things, Men, Relationships, Sex, Uni)

I’m going to write these tales in chronological order, so then I can mentally delete them as I write them down.  Makes sense to me!  So first up, we have the last time me and William ever had sex.  It wasn’t pleasant, at least towards the end of our early morning session.

He had come to visit me at uni, as I was still working to try and finish my MSc, whereas he had finished his degree and had moved back home.  In the morning I was frantically trying to get ready for uni, as I had a lot to do in the lab that day, and William was, typically, taking his time and occasionally getting in the way.  As we stood in the house, saying our goodbyes, something happened: a tingle up my spine as he held me, and a sudden urge to just drag him to bed and have him straight away.  The thought of driving to uni was pushed to the back of my mind as it was overpowered by the need to have him pressed against me.

We smashed our lips into each other, kissing frantically whilst tearing off our clothes.  I pulled him with me as I moved towards the bed, and we both collapsed, him on top of me, into the soft bedding.  There was no foreplay – somehow, we didn’t need it, as we just wanted it that badly.

But it turns out that we did need foreplay: as William withdrew after our respective orgasms, a pool of blood formed on my duvet.  William had torn his foreskin.

He had done this before, so this surprised me that it had happened again – surely it had hurt and he would have stopped?  Apparently it did hurt, but that wasn’t enough to stop him.

It came to light in a later conversation between the two of us, after we had split up, that he knew we weren’t doing too well, but he was willing to do anything to try and make it better.  Which is sweet, in a way.  But is a relationship really worth spilling blood over, when you know that it’s effectively ended?

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The return of…

October 12, 2009 at 9:10 pm (Men, Relationships, Sex, Uni)

I’m sorry I’ve been away for nearly two months!  A lot has happened:

  • I finished degree number two – I got a merit :D
  • I started degree number 3 last week and I’m loving it
  • I moved into my own flat – the first time I’ve ever lived entirely on my own.  But guess what?  Loving that too.
  • And Men.  Yes, with a capital M, so you can realise just how much of an impact Men have had on my life for the past two months.

I will return with stories of sessions with William (both whilst we were together and issues arisen recently), the Bass Player fling that turned ugly, and how an old flame has re-entered my life (and probably not the one you think!).

Watch this space

LS x

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LS ponders…

August 16, 2009 at 11:42 pm (Erotica, Literature, Ponderings, Sex Games, Sex books, Sex toys)

Is there any place or person that accepts donations of unwanted sex toys?

Moving house has meant I needed to sort through a lot of things, and it came to my attention that some toys in my goodie drawer just don’t get a look-in anymore.  And it seems such a waste for them to sit there, unused and unwanted, taking up precious space in my new house.  

But changing the subject of donating none-sex toys, is anyone willing to accept donations of the following:

  • One copy of Sex 365
  • One copy of SuperSex card deck by Tracey Cox
  • One copy of Wicked Words 4?

I will return with juicy tales of illicit encounters, and cautious tales, to make you think.  I have an idea which ones will be more enticing.

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Phone sex

July 27, 2009 at 11:17 pm (Blow Jobs, Flirting, Lustful things, Men, Relationships, Sex)

Him: I’ll never let you win! Accept that I am superior.
Me: Nope, I’ll come up with some sort of appeal that says you’re cheating.
Him: That’ll never work.
Me: I’ll tie you to a chair and gag you.
Him: That’s called blackmail.
Me: I could bribe you. Everyone loves a bribe.
Him: Depends.
Me: On?
Him: How delicious the bribe is.
Me: Well we’re down to two options: money and sex.
Him: I don’t want money.
Me: Well that’s sorted then. But I suspect it’ll have to be to certain requirements. You won’t let me win for just anything.
Him: True. What do you suggest?
Me: A peck on the cheek?
Him: No deal.
Me: A kiss on the mouth?
Him: Hmmmm…still, no deal.
Me: A kiss below the belt?
Him: Getting better!
Me: Me, naked, on my knees, giving you head. Then, when I’m done, you can have your way with me. Does that sound good? Deal?
Him: Deal.

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Sex update

July 16, 2009 at 9:22 pm (Biting, Fondling, Kinkiness, Men, Relationships, Sex)

I’ve been away with my coursemates on a ‘conference’.  I say conference, but it’s not the type you’ve probably got an image for in your head at the moment: basically, we were in the middle of nowhere, with no phone reception or internet, and made to talk about our current research to the rest of the department.

It was actually kind of fun.  Having no phone reception and internet meant I couldn’t be distracted, and I enjoyed time with my friend.  Maybe I enjoyed the time a little too much….

I had heard rumours that my coursemate, Bass Player, had liked me for a while.  But we’d been good friends, nothing more.  But being away in strange surroundings with nothing better to do can lead to all sorts of things.  Throw in the fact I’d received bad news about a family member dying whilst I was at the conference, and my emotions were all over the place: I was tired, drained, numb with shock, and had an overwhelming urge to go home.

The majority of my coursemates were drunk, which is a regular occurrence on conferences!  I was sitting by myself, in the dark, when I was stumbled upon by Bass Player.  He asked if I wanted to join the others, and I hesitantly got up from my comfy sofa where I was curled up and got up.  He led the way, and when we’d walked through the doors to the top of the stairs, he turned round and asked if I wanted a drink from the bar.  I politely shook my head, as alcohol really wouldn’t help my situation at that present time.  He brushed the hair out of my eyes and then quickly pecked a kiss on my lips. 

Completely stunned, I just stood there.  But what happened next was, I’d like to think, uncharacteristic of me: he kissed me again, this time for longer and more urgently, as if he was fitting in 9 months of fantasising about this moment into one point in time.  But I did not pull back.  I kissed back, and wound my arms around his torso, with my hands winding through his hair.

He pushed me against the wall, out of sight of prying eyes and pressed himself against me with, if it was possible, even more urgency.  His mouth found its way down to my neck, his hand entwined in my hair on one side of my head to prevent it lolling in the state of pleasure I was experiencing.

I haven’t wanted to feel a man’s touch so much for a long time.  Not even William’s.  I spread my legs, with him in-between them.  His hand snaked up my leg, around the curve of my bum, and under the back of my top.  Resting his hand in the small of my back he pulled me closer to him, as his mouth ventured further down.  His other hand was now free, leaving my head to rest against the wall.  His hand traced a path across my breasts, before pulling down my top to expose my bra.  His finger slid under the confines of my bra, to discover my nipples were hard and eager to be touched.  He complied by lifting my breast from its prison, and dipped his head to taste it: he circled my nipple with his tongue, before giving it a gentle nibble.  He continued to pleasure me in this way for a while, before tracing a line of kissed back up to my mouth.  I felt completely sated.

But his kisses left me wanting more, and the urgency and the speed we were kissing increased.  Tongues danced, teeth bit down harder on lips, breathing got heavier.  His hand moved from the small of my back to again trace a line up my leg, but this time, on the inside.  It was excruciatingly slow.  When he finally reached the spot between my legs, his touch, even though through my jeans, just made me moan.  He found my spot so quickly, and his fingers were truly skilled, as he had me working up to orgasm in no time.  I was holding on tight to him, my head buried in his shoulder, teeth biting down through his t-shirt to muffle the sounds of my pleasure.

It was just before I came that I made him stop.  Something switched on in my head, that even though I knew I had to end my relationship with William, I wasn’t that girl: I wouldn’t cheat on him.  In some eyes, I know it appears I already have.  But I knew if I came right there, it would be so much worse, and the guilt so much more than it already was. 

I asked him to stop.  At first he didn’t understand, thinking I meant I wanted to go somewhere more secluded for more than just a fondle in a doorway.  I explained to him that I couldn’t continue, that I felt guilty enough as it was, and that I wouldn’t continue this until I had done the right thing.  He didn’t seem to understand at first, but it eventually sank in.

I know some of you reading this will believe I am a bad person.  Go ahead, it’s ok.  But it made me realise that if I wanted to touch another man that much, and have him touch me in that way, and not think of William until I was nearly coming on his hands, then maybe I should wake up and smell the coffee.LA8396-001

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